Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward…as I remember them.

Navigating the glittering world of Hollywood, it’s easy to be dazzled by the spotlight. Yet, some stars shine brightly on and off the screen, teaching us invaluable life lessons. Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward were such luminaries, exemplifying kindness, authenticity, and the importance of setting one’s values.

A Magnetic Presence

At 23, I entered the pioneering world of men’s hairstyling, working for Jay Sebring, a stylist to the stars. I vividly recall answering the phone to hear Steve McQueen’s voice asking, “Can Jay come race with me tomorrow?”

During the grand opening of our salon, the star-studded event included Jay’s friends and clients Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. When Paul walked in the door, it appeared as if he shone. Paul Newman had a presence so captivating it seemed to light up the room—his charisma was palpable, a true lesson in personal magnetism.

A Lesson in Love

Tragically, Jay Sebring’s life was cut short that year, and Jim Markham took over the business. He once shared a touching story from his time in Paul Newman’s kitchen, where a simple haircut turned into a display of affection when Joanne walked in. Newman’s immediate, joyful reaction to his wife, greeting her with “Hello, lovely lady,” was a lesson in love and respect, reminding us that genuine affection transcends public personas.

Afterward, Jim said, “If Paul Newman makes this much fuss of his wife decades into marriage, what do we mere mortals have to do?”

Defining Success on Their Terms

Joanne Woodward’s definition of success further demonstrates their grounded nature. In an interview with Barbara Walters, when asked about her view on success, Woodward defined it as “Not fame or fortune. Rather, we should raise well-adjusted children who do not need counselling. I have not done that.” This candid reflection shows that success, even for the most celebrated, is about personal fulfillment and the legacy one leaves behind.

Everyday Values from Extraordinary Lives

Reflecting on the interactions and the values upheld by Newman and Woodward, it’s clear they navigated their lives with a rare authenticity that anyone can aspire to emulate. Their most essential roles were not those played on screen, but rather those lived out in the quiet sincerity of their daily lives. They teach us that despite the allure of Hollywood, fundamental values like love, respect, and genuine presence are what truly enrich our lives.

As we look up to these stars, remember that they aren’t so different from us. We can define our success, maintain our values, and positively impact those around us.

Perhaps you agree that Hollywood offers us more than entertainment—it provides a mirror reflecting what truly matters in life.

What lessons have you reflected on recently that would work well in a speech? Especially if you are not the hero of your story.

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